Sermon of the Week:
What’s Next?
A sermon preached for The Kirk of Kansas City, Missouri, on November 21, 2021.
Special Music: Simple Things
Hymns: We Praise You, O God
Now Thank We All our God
Keywords: Gratitude, Guilt, Anxiety, Thanksgiving. #pcusa
Scripture readings (which you may wish to read prior):
1 Timothy 2:1-7
and Matthew 6:25:33
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It came as a bit of surprise to me when I read the gospel lesson
commended for this year’s Thanksgiving reflection.
This reading before us today from Matthew.
Here it is, Thanksgiving week.
I expected to see something about giving thanks, about GRATITUDE.
Instead, we get the Sermon on the Mount,
and Jesus’ always challenging words,
“Don’t Worry!” “Don’t be anxious!”
“Can any of you by worrying
add a single hour to your span of life?”
What does that have to do with turkey and pumpkin pie?
Well, not so much, you might argue.
I’m betting that you might have heard a Thanksgiving sermon
that goes something like this:
we are blessed, in so many ways,
with material things,
with health, and security,
loving friends and family;
therefore we should give thanks to God for all these blessings,
when so many are not as lucky;
and we should share what we’ve been given with others.
Nothing in there, not really, about anxiety, or worry.
Nothing about our ability or inability to actually be thankful.
In other words, as I’ve heard it expressed,
a thanksgiving sermon
should be about this:
thanksgiving really just equals “thanks” plus “giving.”
Now, I’ve preached that sermon, or some variation thereof, myself.
And all of those things are true:
we are truly blessed, my goodness,
so fortunate are we,
especially here in the United States.
We should give thanks to God for those blessings,
and we should share
what we’ve been given with others.
No question in my mind about that.
I’m just not sure that’s what true “thanksgiving” is about, though,
or what Thanksgiving is for.
I can’t help but hear, and cringe at, all those “SHOULDS”.
What we SHOULD feel. What we SHOULD do. How we SHOULD respond.
There’s a lot of guilt in there.
Somehow, being told what I should do,
makes me feel a bit guilty,
rather resentful, more than a little recalcitrant.
Am I living up to what God wants of me?
What if I am having trouble, this year, finding this gratitude?
Yes, I know I’m fortunate, and surrounded by the bounty of a generous God
But it has been hard,
There’s been so much loss
My neighbors have disappointed me so
And I am tired…
What then? What’s next? Gratitude? Really?
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Here’s the thing: nothing in church is about guilt.
Nothing: other than God’s forgiveness and God freeing us from it.
Thanksgiving is no different.
I don’t believe that thanksgiving, or as I would call it,
the spiritual practice of gratitude,
is just something we “should” do.
Gratitude is something we “get to” do.
Practicing gratitude, I believe, is one of the most helpful and profound ways
of deepening our relationship with God,
of recognizing God’s presence and activity in our life.
of growing our intimacy with God,
of not allowing our anxieties and our worries to cripple us
from the work we actually need to be about.
And truly,
This is PARTICULARLY important during days like these
Days of anxiety and worry and discord…
Have you felt it, all around you?
I have.
People who are worried about our future, or their safety,
for the very fabric of our communities.
There will be plenty of sermons to come about
How we as people of faith
can spread God’s love and God’s concern for justice
During days like these
And Advent is all about God’s response
To all of that
deep within us…
But Today: Here’s the good news:
We’re INVITED to practice gratitude,
To give it a go,
not because it makes God feel good to be thanked
but because it is GOOD for US, and good for the world.
It transforms us.
It can heal us.
And it prepares us for the work of being God’s people.
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John Buchanan, the now retired
Pastor of Fourth Presbyterian Church of Chicago,
talked about the importance of Gratitude this way:[i]
Gratitude is, after all, at the very heart of our faith,
the fundamental Christian emotion.
Gratitude, the theologians have always said,
is the basic human RESPONSE
to the goodness and mercy of God
and to grace,
[which is] God’s undeserved and unconditional love.
At the heart of Christian experience and teaching, Buchanan says
is not guilt,
as we have sometimes been taught;
not obligation,
as we occasionally conclude and teach;
but gratitude, pure and simple
—gratitude for God’s grace,
gratitude because all of life, all of it,
is a gift that we did not earn
but [a gift that we] were given.
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Fair enough.
But how do we get there?
How do we practice Gratitude?
How do we nurture thankfulness, even in these days?
How do we get there without having all those SHOULDs placed upon us?
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The more I thought about this passage from Matthew,
Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life….
the more I realized
how much Jesus’ words really do have to do with thanksgiving. [Read more…]